ASSumptions will have you MAD as hell lol

Okay so I was just wondering why this dude I don't even think about lol always has something to say about my relationship. Like I don't talk about this mane, I don't think about this mane, I don't give a fuck if the fool is breathing, but he ALWAYS has something to say about my relationship lol. At first I was like what's wrong with this fool like I never did anything to him lol why is he talking about my relationship. Then I was like what grown ass man talks about a girl (who doesn't think about him at all) and her man (who doesn't know him nor give a fuck to know him) lol. Then I realized this isn't a man, this is a bitch, and that's some female shit, some BITCH MADE shit to sit up like a hoe ass nigga lol and talk about someones relationship when they don't even think about you lol, that is a FEMALE TRAIT, like this fool doesn't even cross my mind, but I am always hearing he is asking about me and mine and has something negative to say. I have nothing negative to say about him at all I could care less to talk about him. All I am worried about is my next move, I'm worried about a job and grad school and bettering myself and my relationship. So ya'll I am just wondering why a grown man I don't even think about has so much to say like is he jealous? Is it something mentally wrong like is he unstable? Because he doesn't even cross my mind so I don't know why me NOR my relationship crosses his mind. Like it just seems like he has animosity towards me and I am happy like I don't have animosity towards him at all I don't care enough to like I said before the opposite of hate is indifference, because if you hate or have any opinion towards a situation you still care, and the last thing I do is care. So what's the issue? lol


Also, I am sure this isn't the only person that has opinions about me, my relationship, etc. But I try to stay drama free I barely go out anymore, all I do is go to class, go to work, study, and hang out with my boo. Like I really don't understand why drama and hatred seem to follow me no matter how much I try to stay away from it, if you're a non-factor in my life I would hope I was a non-factor in yours. And if you have something to say, an opinion, a question, etc. just let me know I am willing to talk or clear up any questions you may have all you have to do is ask.

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  1. NaeDecember 3, 2011 at 8:51 PM

    Sounds to me that this guy really likes you... sadly, instead of being a man and getting over the fact that you have a man, his immaturity is really showing. *shrug* ah well, live your life and be happy. Graduation is right around the corner.

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  2. DeDeDecember 4, 2011 at 10:58 PM

    Thanks hun. Every time I talk to someone about it that's what they tell me, and I really don't understand it #sigh. Thanks for commenting, and you're right graduation is right around the corner!

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