A Man Should Treat You the Way he would want someone to treat his mother

This one is going to be short and sweet, just thought I should drop a little knowledge on the ladies that my mom dropped on me......

When you are dating a guy, pay attention to how he treats his mother, grand mother, aunts, and all of the other women in his life. If he shows respect for them, that means he will show the same respect for you. If he is disrespectful to them, what makes you think he will have any respect for you, when he is disrespectful to the woman who gave birth to him and took care of him all his life.

Also, if he introduces you to his family, and friends (not only males, but his female friends too) this is a good thing. This shows not only that he cares about you, but he respects you, and he has nothing to hide. If a man is keeping you a secret from the most important people in his life, that is a bad sign.

Tell me how you all feel about this, also feel free to ADD to it, by dropping some of your knowledge too. Have a good day guys!

♥ dEde

Comments

  1. UnknownAugust 6, 2009 at 4:27 PM

    Preach! Lol, but seriously, this is a woman who nurtured him during the critical years of his life...and he has not an ounce of respect for her?!? No need to waste time on him because he "fa damn sho" ain't gonna change for you! Lol

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  2. AnonymousAugust 6, 2009 at 4:38 PM

    Exactly!!

    ♥ dEde

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